When a Man Loves a Woman

When a man falls in love with a woman, it must caused by some factors. Beautifulness generally constitutes the dominant motive why a man wants to approach a woman. However, hereditary, wealthy, and religion, are also important factors that would be considered in determining a spouse. On behalf of love, a man will never doubt to do everything for the woman he badly loves. Even suicide is definitely convinced to be better than losing lady’s affection.

For a man, love is not a word to say; it is a consequence to act. Therefore, after declaring his feeling to a woman, he must propose a plan to marry her. In this case, marriage is an accepted effect of a passionate relationship between a man and a woman. I believe that it is not a wise suggestion to say that love doesn’t mean to possess one to another. Love is a condition in which there is a strong desire to having and keeping whatever we love.

As a couple get married, the other upshots will occur. Since they are ‘two (people) in one (agreement)’, they should try to control their self-ambition and to respect their spouse. Lacking of this, they are likely to be separated again. Yet the most crucial impact of a ‘wedding deal’ is children. It is unquestionable that the ultimate goal of forming family is having children. In a family unit, children are the biggest responsible. Parents must totally responsible for caring and growing their children.

When the children raise and become adult, they will follow the ‘natural law’ that their parent had accomplished in the past. They are going to fall in love, get married, have children, and care and see their children grow up. This cycle will replicable again and again until the end of the world.

Jakarta, June 2001